How Working Parents and Families with Multiple Children Can Effectively Use the Doman Method
In the dynamic world of parenting, balancing work and children's education is a formidable challenge. Fortunately, for those exploring the Doman Method—a revolutionary approach to child development—there are practical strategies to make this journey both feasible and enjoyable. In this blog, I address three critical questions that I often encounter:
Can working parents effectively use the Doman Method?
How can they divide these responsibilities?
And, how should they approach teaching multiple children?
We'll explore these topics to provide a cohesive guide for parents striving to make the most out of the Doman Method programs.
Can Working Parents Effectively Use the Doman Method?
The answer is a resounding yes. Even when both parents are working, it is entirely feasible to educate their children using programs like the Doman Method's reading program, the Gift of Knowledge program, and the Doman math program. Many parents successfully teach their children using these methods. The key advice given is not to take on too much at once. Whatever parents choose to start with, they should aim to do it consistently, even if it means doing so with less intensity. For instance, some families may opt to work with just one set of math cards per day, focus on one category of reading words, and use one category of Doman cards. The emphasis is on maintaining consistency in these three programs, albeit at a reduced intensity, to make the process manageable and effective for working parents. If ten minutes is the only time a parent has every day to do a teaching session, then ten minutes is enough. The most important aspect is to keep the program consistent and fun for both you and your child.
How Can Parents Divide Doman Method Teaching Responsibilities?
When it comes to sharing the teaching responsibilities, the mantra 'divide and conquer' is highly effective. One parent might take on the reading program, while the other focuses on the Gift of Knowledge program. Alternatively, each parent can choose the part of the program they are most naturally drawn to. Some parents may gravitate towards the math program, while others might prefer the reading program. This approach not only divides the workload but also brings a more joyous and enthusiastic spirit to the teaching process, as each parent engages in what they genuinely enjoy. The best course of action is for parents to sit down together, discuss their preferences, and decide who will be happiest handling each part of the program, thereby dividing the responsibilities in a way that suits both of them.
How to Teach Multiple Children with the Doman Method?
When working with multiple children, the recommended approach is to focus primarily on the oldest child. For example, if a family has children aged one, three, and five, the teaching should start with the five-year-old. This strategy is effective because the younger children, observing their older sibling's engagement with the program, will naturally become interested. Starting with the youngest could lead the older children to feel excluded or to perceive the program as too juvenile. By initiating the program with the oldest child, it becomes more appealing and 'cool' for the younger siblings. Thus, the best practice is to start with the oldest child and then gradually integrate the younger children into the program once it is well-established and running smoothly.
Marlowe Doman guiding his older child through a reading lesson, with his little brother joining in!
In summary, the Doman Method presents a versatile and effective framework for child development that can be successfully integrated into the busy lives of working parents, even those with multiple children. By adopting a consistent, yet flexible approach, dividing responsibilities based on parents' preferences, and focusing initially on the oldest child, families can create a harmonious and productive learning environment. Remember, the journey with the Doman Method is not just about education; it's about building stronger family bonds and instilling a lifelong love for learning in your children.
We would love to hear from you as parents—whether you have questions, are facing challenges, or want to share your successes! Your experiences and insights are invaluable, and they help us all grow together in this exciting journey of child development.
